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Your Skin, Your Rules: Letting Go of Old Beauty BS

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xo, lj
Feb 17, 2025
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Growing up in a Filipino household, beauty was always a topic—whether we wanted it to be or not. It was in the offhand comments from titas about skin tone, the reminders to stay out of the sun ("Para hindi ka umitim!"), and the idea that straight, jet-black hair was the gold standard. Beauty wasn’t just about looking good; it was about fitting into a mo…

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