Cuz Apparently, They Can’t Stay Little Forever (But We Can Still Get Lash Lifts Together)

A Lesson in Letting Go

There’s something wild about watching your kids grow up. One minute, they need you for everything—snacks, rides, answers to life’s big questions. The next, they’re making their own plans, figuring things out, and reminding you (often) that they “got this.” Teaching independence is one of those parenting milestones no one really prepares you for—because while we want them to be confident and capable, we also kinda miss being their go-to for everything.

For me, raising an 8-year-old, a teenager, and a young adult all at the same time has been a masterclass in stepping back while still being present. My youngest still loves when I play restaurant with her, my teen is exploring what it means to carve out her own identity, and my oldest is fully stepping into adulthood. Each stage is different, but my goal stays the same: supporting their independence while keeping our connection strong.

One thing I’ve learned is that independence doesn’t mean disconnecting. If anything, it makes the time we spend together even more meaningful. It’s why I look for little rituals that let us bond without forcing it—whether it’s driving them to school (aka my best shot at catching up on their lives), watching their favorite shows (even if I don’t get the hype), or finding ways to introduce self-care into their routines.

Enter: lash and brow lifts.

For my teenager, it’s been a way for her to dip her toes into beauty in a way that feels natural and age-appropriate. No heavy makeup, no daily routine—just a simple, easy enhancement that makes her feel good. And for me? It’s a lifesaver. The “wake up and go” effect makes my mornings smoother, and honestly, it’s just nice to do something for myself. Self-care for moms is always marketed as spa days and weekends away, but sometimes, it’s just about making life easier.

Teaching my girls about self-care isn’t about vanity—it’s about showing them that taking time for themselves is important. Whether it’s finding what makes them feel their best, prioritizing rest, or just having moments where they get to pause and reset, I want them to carry that into adulthood.

So while they’re off growing up and making their own choices, I’ll be here—reminding them that self-care isn’t selfish, offering them rides even when they pretend they don’t need them, and maybe, just maybe, convincing them that a mother-daughter lash lift date is actually a great idea.

Moms of growing kids, how do you balance giving them space while still staying connected? Tell me everything.